How to Teach Kids to Focus on What They Can Control: The Two Circles
A frustrating baseball game led to a simple lesson for my son: how to focus on what he can control and let go of what he can’t.
Embracing Enough: Welcome to Lou LaMedica’s Personal Blog
"Embracing Enough" is my exploration of a life well-lived—where gratitude meets growth. From mindset and parenting to small business insights, easy family recipes, and personal finance, this blog shares practical wisdom on appreciating what we have and finding fulfillment in the everyday.
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How to Find Direction in Life When Goals Aren’t Enough
Feeling stuck or unsure what comes next? Learn how a personal North Star can help you find direction in life without needing a perfect five-year plan.
Learning Guitar as an Adult: Why I Started at 48
At 48 years old, I decided to learn classical guitar — not because I needed another hobby, but because I missed the feeling of being a beginner again.
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How to Teach Kids to Handle Failure | Embracing Enough
My 10-year-old daughter didn't make the travel softball team. And that's okay. Here's why I believe disappointment is one of the most important lessons we can teach our kids.
How to Pay Off Your Mortgage Early Without Sacrifice
We bought a home we loved, lived within our means, and made smart financial decisions along the way. Here's how budgeting, extra mortgage payments, and resisting the temptation to upgrade helped us approach paying off our home in just 18 years—without sacrificing the life we wanted.
Garlic Shrimp & Rancho Gordo Alubia Blanca Bean Stew
Tender shrimp, creamy Rancho Gordo Alubia Blanca beans, roasted red peppers, and a golden lemon-butter sauce. An easy, flavorful one-pan dinner served over fluffy basmati rice.
How to Stop Buying Things You Don't Need
A sixteen-year-old espresso machine, an Amazon shopping habit, and a dream of starting a business taught me that buying less can make room for a richer life.
How to Figure Out What You Want in Life
In Afghanistan, I could see a future making good money in intelligence contracting. Instead, I kept thinking about a turkey sandwich. It took me a while to understand why.
How to Stop Micromanaging and Trust Your Team
I never wanted to be a leader. Then I thought being one meant doing everything myself. Here's how I learned to trust my team, step aside, and find my greatest satisfaction in helping others grow.
Does Money Buy Championships in Baseball? Ask the Brewers
Does money buy championships in baseball? The 2026 Brewers and Rays show how smart team building can overcome MLB's biggest payrolls.
How to Connect With Your Teenage Son: He's Listening
Connecting with your teenage son isn't always easy. A simple conversation with my 13-year-old reminded me that our kids hear more than we think.
When to Get a Business Line of Credit (Before You Need It)
The best time to establish a business line of credit is when your finances are strong. Here's why waiting until you need money can be a costly mistake.
How to Have Difficult Conversations at Work
Learn how to have difficult conversations at work with clear expectations, consistent standards, and respect for the other person’s dignity.
How to Stop Being Cynical as You Get Older
Growing older brings wisdom, but it can also make us cynical. How do we prepare for life's disappointments without losing our curiosity, optimism, and capacity for delight?
How to Give Meaningful Praise (Even If It Doesn't Come Naturally)
Learn how to give meaningful praise that makes people feel seen. A personal story about specific recognition, leadership, and the power of kind words.
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