# Reflections

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When a Spill Is Just a Spill

Sep 5, 2025

Two cups of water hit the floor at the gym. Some people called it a disaster. I called it practice. The small stuff trains us for the big storms.

Ritual de lo Habitual: Finding Meaning in Life’s Maintenance

Sep 2, 2025

Adult life is full of maintenance—health, budgets, routines—that can feel monotonous. But with intention, maintenance becomes ritual, bringing joy, presence, and meaning to the everyday.

The Gross, Glorious, Totally Worth-It Guide to Surviving DMV Allergies

Aug 13, 2025

We moved to the DMV thinking we were immune to allergies. Four years later, we were congested, cranky, and armed with a four-step plan to stop sinus infections in their tracks.

Why I Added to My CROX Position

Aug 7, 2025

Crocs stock fell 27% on earnings, but I added to my CROX position. Here’s why I believe in dollar-cost averaging, brand strength, and long-term durability despite short-term uncertainty.

From Prison to Peace: What It Feels Like When a Business Finally Turns the Corner

Jul 22, 2025

I used to dread walking through the doors of the business I built. Now, I get to write bonus checks with pride—and sleep at night. Here’s how we turned a barely-surviving mess into something solid, sustainable, and worth showing up for.

Your True Nature Calling

Jul 20, 2025

What Jane’s Addiction—and Perry Farrell’s lyrics—taught me about empathy, language, and seeing people for who they really are. A tribute to music that still hits harder than ever.

The Death Clock Is Ticking (Carpe Diem, Motherfucker)

Jul 20, 2025

I put a death clock on my desk—not to be dark, but to stay honest. Life doesn’t last forever. So the question is: what are you doing today that actually matters?

Becoming What You Can’t Yet See

Jul 8, 2025

Frank Losi was loud, opinionated, and larger than life—and he believed in me before I knew how to believe in myself. This is a tribute to the man who helped me make the leap from employee to business owner, and what it means when someone sees your potential before you can.

Chicago White Sox Fans: From 121 Losses to the 2026 Playoffs

Jul 6, 2025

After 121 losses, the Chicago White Sox are chasing the 2026 ALCS. One unforgettable fan reminds me why baseball loyalty matters.

⚾ Seeing What the Box Score Misses

Jul 3, 2025

A reflection on what it’s like to watch the Mets find new ways to lose, why situational baseball still matters, and how it feels to see the same patterns over and over while everyone else says it’s just variance.

When No Is the Right Answer

Jul 2, 2025

A reflection on the hard but necessary practice of saying no with empathy—and why boundaries are what make adult relationships work.

The Flowers Never Stop Coming

Jun 21, 2025

Two roadside memorials near our home—one for a 13-year-old girl—have become quiet landmarks of love, loss, and the rituals that never stop. This is a reflection on parenting, grief, and what it means to keep showing up when the world has moved on.